Couples/Singles With No Kids

[kevinandtony]

Hi Everyone!

I just wanted to start a conversation going with the group about couples and singles who don't have kids. We have been on 2 other R Family cruises and have yet to meet up with other like people. We travel with my partner's brother and his partner and their 2 boys- so we are the fun gay uncles on the trips.

It would be great it we could start a group to meet each other before the cruise and plan a get together once we are on board. We ourselves are not planning on children so sometimes we don't have alot in common with other couples on these trips. But even couples who are planning on kids would be great to meet. Gay/Lesbian/TG or whatever..let's plan a meeting of our own!

We have learned on past R Family cruises that it can be difficult to meet other non children travelers. We don't have alot in common with the couples with families (nothing against them please... we just can't relate to some of the family related topics) and it makes it hard to be on the outside of these circles sometimes. We seem to meet more of the straight traveling companions of other gay and lesbian cruise members than other gay people.

Please don't anyone mis-interpret my motives here or what I am trying to say. We are in awe of these great, courageous, loving families, but it is just not in our picture. I find myself near tears every time we board, seeing these families. We would just like a time to feel welcome also. Gay uncles are pretty awesome you know!!! :rolleyes:

So anyone, want to join a group???

See ya'll in July!!!

Kevin and Tony

[Rebecca's Bears]

Hi Kevin & Tony

We are Kathy ( 60 ) and The Love of My Life Rebecca ( now you know I can't put her age in I do want to live to go on this trip ) from New York City with no children. we would love to get together with you have dinner or you can find us by the pool ( smoking side )look for the scooter with Rebecca running behinder it.

Kathy & Rebecca

[Crazy aka Cheryl]

Hi Everyone!

I just wanted to start a conversation going with the group about couples and singles who don't have kids. We have been on 2 other R Family cruises and have yet to meet up with other like people. We travel with my partner's brother and his partner and their 2 boys- so we are the fun gay uncles on the trips.

It would be great it we could start a group to meet each other before the cruise and plan a get together once we are on board. We ourselves are not planning on children so sometimes we don't have alot in common with other couples on these trips. But even couples who are planning on kids would be great to meet. Gay/Lesbian/TG or whatever..let's plan a meeting of our own!

We have learned on past R Family cruises that it can be difficult to meet other non children travelers. We don't have alot in common with the couples with families (nothing against them please... we just can't relate to some of the family related topics) and it makes it hard to be on the outside of these circles sometimes. We seem to meet more of the straight traveling companions of other gay and lesbian cruise members than other gay people.

Please don't anyone mis-interpret my motives here or what I am trying to say. We are in awe of these great, courageous, loving families, but it is just not in our picture. I find myself near tears every time we board, seeing these families. We would just like a time to feel welcome also. Gay uncles are pretty awesome you know!!! :rolleyes:

So anyone, want to join a group???

See ya'll in July!!!

Kevin and Tony

Hi Kevin and Tony,
R Family has all different (MIXERS) just for that purpose.So that people with common interests or as you are the COOL GAY UNCLES A Mixer is a planned activity at a specific time and place where people can meet.I am expaining for other people that might be new to the Forums..This is put on the daily schedule that you get nightly in your cabins of the next days events.R Family is very good about making everyone inclusive.
I will see what we can do about getting you a COUPLE's with no KiIDS Mixer.
Please remind me closer to the Cruise.
CCC

[fizzer]

Hi Kevin & Tony,

My name is Donna and I will be travelling with my partner/spouse, Denise. We have no children. It sounds like there might be a mixer planned on board but we would also be interested in meeting before the cruise. See you in July!! :)

[kevinandtony]

Thanks Cheryl-
This will be our 3rd R Family cruise and we have never seen a mixer with this group in mind before. Lots of other ones, but not one that included couples like us. This would be great if you could set this up!

Coulpes like us....keep rsponding please!!! Thanks Kathy and Donna (and partners) for being the 1st to respond..that's a good sign. (even if no others, we will meet up and have fun ourselves!!!!)

Kevin and Tony

[Shiningstar1977]

Hi

I'm Laura and my partner is Sue
we are travelling with our friends - couple Loretta and Traci and Casey.

Actually none of us have kids.

We might be interested in getting together before the cruise too. I responded on another topica about a different get together.

We are all from NE Ohio.

Thanks for thinking of it. This is not only our first R Family Vacation but our first cruise so it will be nice to meet people. (We are normally PTown vacationers and are mixing it up a little this year.)

peace,
Laura

[Em_and_parents]

I would love to meet you on the cruise, Kevin and Tony. I am single and I don't plan on having kids. But I am looking forward to becoming an aunt if that should happen.

Cheryl, I am looking forward to the mixers!

-Emily

[Reflektion84]

I'm kind of in the same boat you are, I'm 24, and travelling on the cruise with my mom. While I'm sure she could dig out a lot of baby stories about me, I don't think I want to be anywhere near when she does! I hope to see you all onboard.

~Ben

[sharonlynn1946]

Hey guys and gals,

We are a female couple with no kids on our first every cruise, period. We chose R Family just because of all of you. Would love to get together before, during or maybe after cruise. We are not sure if we will get to Seattle only the day before or day of as we are driving in from Nebraska. But we will be hanging around a few days after returning, as we have friends in the area. Keep us in mind for any activities, if you don't mind a couple of old ladies hanging around.
Sharon and Beth

[Em_and_parents]

I'm kind of in the same boat you are, I'm 24, and travelling on the cruise with my mom. While I'm sure she could dig out a lot of baby stories about me, I don't think I want to be anywhere near when she does! I hope to see you all onboard.

~Ben

I'll be 25 tomorrow. My parents are going on the cruise with me. LOL! I don't want to be around if my parents tell baby stories either.

-Emily

[CUBAN PETE]

hello

michael and i dont have children either and would also love to meet other couples. count us in..

hugs to all,
johnny and michael " d.j. cuban pete "

[kevinandtony]

Hi Everyone!
It is great to see all these responses so far, not to mention the couple of emails we have received also!
It looks like this could shape up to be a good group. We are anxious to meet each of you and share a little time together to make some new friends.


So let's keep the dialogue going...spread the word...there must be more of us out there!!! :)

We will be arriving in Seattle on Wed July 8 early in the morning to meet the nephews (and their fun loving dads as well). No plans yet on what we are doing once we get there, but as a past Seattle resident, I am sure we will find some fun things to do.


If anyone has questions about the city (things to do, places to go, food etc...) let me know. I will be glad to answer any questions. It is a great city and there are lots of great things to do and places to go..and what a wonderful time to be there! July is a pretty spectacular month weather wise. Can get warm, but not as hot as it will be back home in Phoenix!!!

Keep in touch ya'll and let's find more people to join our little (not so little hopefully) group!

Have a good week!!!!!

kevin and Tony

[Reflektion84]

I'll be 25 tomorrow. My parents are going on the cruise with me. LOL! I don't want to be around if my parents tell baby stories either.

-Emily

Oh wow, I just realized I said I was 24.. I had a birthday last month.. I'm 25 now! Hope you had a happy birthday!

~Ben

[catluvr]

I remember that I had a 25th birthday once...does that count? :confused:

We have no kids unless you count the four legged furry ones. And they will not be vacationing with us! So, we would enjoy a pre-cruise or on-cruise get together with other "no-kidders".

[babaloos]

Hi Everyone!

I just wanted to start a conversation going with the group about couples and singles who don't have kids. We have been on 2 other R Family cruises and have yet to meet up with other like people. We travel with my partner's brother and his partner and their 2 boys- so we are the fun gay uncles on the trips.

It would be great it we could start a group to meet each other before the cruise and plan a get together once we are on board. We ourselves are not planning on children so sometimes we don't have alot in common with other couples on these trips. But even couples who are planning on kids would be great to meet. Gay/Lesbian/TG or whatever..let's plan a meeting of our own!

We have learned on past R Family cruises that it can be difficult to meet other non children travelers. We don't have alot in common with the couples with families (nothing against them please... we just can't relate to some of the family related topics) and it makes it hard to be on the outside of these circles sometimes. We seem to meet more of the straight traveling companions of other gay and lesbian cruise members than other gay people.

Please don't anyone mis-interpret my motives here or what I am trying to say. We are in awe of these great, courageous, loving families, but it is just not in our picture. I find myself near tears every time we board, seeing these families. We would just like a time to feel welcome also. Gay uncles are pretty awesome you know!!! :rolleyes:

So anyone, want to join a group???

See ya'll in July!!!

Kevin and Tony


Hi Kevin,
Please don't get your dance card too full!! You and my brother have some kid sitting time ahead of you...lol..oh, and joe is expecting his money for keeping that dang rock on our table for a year...we'll take cash.

Looking forward to Alaska.

Danny (Brother-in-Law)

[Em_and_parents]

Oh wow, I just realized I said I was 24.. I had a birthday last month.. I'm 25 now! Hope you had a happy birthday!

~Ben

Thank you, Ben. I had a great birthday.

-Emily

[Possum]

Hello!

I'll be traveling solo...single...AND no kids. So that would put me in the "Singles with no kids" category. Hmmm....

Howard

[DEchicks]

Hey guys! This will be our third cruise sans kids! We do have them (4 boys ages 10 & 14 - 2 of each!), but the cruise is our get-away and believe me....we DO NOT spend our cruise time talking about them with other parents! LOL! We have met some wonderful, wonderful friends - both gay and straight - also traveling without children and we have the time of our life on these cruises! If there is a mixer count us in (all 10 of us if my count is correct). Alaska here we come!

[candue]

I like to pretend I have no kids, does that count? This time I am bringing six of the seven so I guess that would be hard to pull off but can't it be a mind set?

[Crazy aka Cheryl]

I like to pretend I have no kids, does that count? This time I am bringing six of the seven so I guess that would be hard to pull off but can't it be a mind set?

That is some far streched pretending considering you have almost enough kids to start your own football team :eek:
Hey it is an R Family cruise you can be who you want or dont :D :D .
Hey Candue .How are you guys?
I got an email from the girls down under also.
They are hours away from the fires out of harms way.
Sadly they will not be going to Alaska.
See ya soon.
Where is Kelsey with the count ? Hmn.
Going to drop Patty an email make sure they are Ok.
CCC

[Alaska2009]

I'm a single male and went alone last year, I had a great time. Occasionally I was conscious of being alone, but basically I was so busy so much of the time I didn't have time to feel lonely.

Often the best way to meet people was to show up early to an event and chat with the people around you. They did have a mixer the first night for singles, but that was just one night and went by quickly.

They also had a singles dinner..However the problem with an event like that is that you are "rooted" in your seats so you can't meet everyone there.

The best thing is to just look at all the activities available every day on the ship's schedule, HIGHLIGHT what looks interesting, and then do it. There's enough of a diversity of people that you will meet all kinds.

For example, I met a lot of people through a knitting group. Also, the tours were also a great place to meet people because you are with a smaller group. There is also a sign-up board where you can create your own group, and have people meet.

Probably the best thing is to ask Colin and Gregg to think up other singles and no-kid-couples events and also send them your suggestions.

What percentage of the ship is single/no-kids-couples adults, anyway??:confused:

[candue]

That is some far streched pretending considering you have almost enough kids to start your own football team :eek:
Hey it is an R Family cruise you can be who you want or dont :D :D .
Hey Candue .How are you guys?
I got an email from the girls down under also.
They are hours away from the fires out of harms way.
Sadly they will not be going to Alaska.
See ya soon.
Where is Kelsey with the count ? Hmn.
Going to drop Patty an email make sure they are Ok.
CCC

Okay I won't be single or kidless but I insist on the right to be tall and blond and extremely funny. Might I suggest someone add pics here of some of the mixers so people can identify some of us. I have none sadly or I would share.

[Crazy aka Cheryl]

Okay I won't be single or kidless but I insist on the right to be tall and blond and extremely funny. Might I suggest someone add pics here of some of the mixers so people can identify some of us. I have none sadly or I would share.
You are tall blonde and extremely funny.On it I have the one from last years Mixer.
Looking right now.
CCC

[Crazy aka Cheryl]

You are tall blonde and extremely funny.On it I have the one from last years Mixer.
Looking right now.
CCC
Hey TJ,
They are on a disc my CD rom is not working on this mchine.I will dig it up and try to remeber to post them tomorrow.
On my LIST it goes.............LOL
CCC

[lilbella]

Helloo Kevin and Tony,

My name is Patty and my partner Nikki (both 37) went on the cruise last July and had a blast. It was the most magical week of our lives, but we also felt awkward in meeting others like us. We are not as out-going as most, but we would have definatley attended a mixer on the boat for couples with no kids. If something gets scheduled on the boat, we will definatley be there. Thanks and see you on the boat!

[kevinandtony]

Hi Kevin,
Please don't get your dance card too full!! You and my brother have some kid sitting time ahead of you...lol..oh, and joe is expecting his money for keeping that dang rock on our table for a year...we'll take cash.

Looking forward to Alaska.

Danny (Brother-in-Law)

HI Danny!
This is your brother in law. Thanks for the posting but get your kids straight...it's Matthew who gets the money for hanging on to the "dang" rock I gave him in Puerta Vallarta last March.
Kevin

[Dino&Rich]

Hey Kevin and Tony.

We feel the same way, for those that want children in there lives this is truly a beautiful and emotional event. Our community is truly lucky to have rFamily and the opportunity to vacation comfortably.

With that said, Rich and I also found it difficult to find childless couples. We even came across two couples that actually questioned our decision not to adopt :confused: – it was quite negative –
But that was only two people on a huge ship of fabulousness; unfortunately it happened on the first night of our first rFamily cruise and made us a bit cautious about talking to other couples (It’s weird to feel different in the middle of the community that fights to be everything but different).
– We made the best of the vacation, had a wonderful time and will go again, but did not meet any additional friends, other that one couple I met here in the forum before we set sail.


Rich and I would love to be part of this network of couples with out kids.

[kevinandtony]

Hey Kevin and Tony.

We feel the same way, for those that want children in there lives this is truly a beautiful and emotional event. Our community is truly lucky to have rFamily and the opportunity to vacation comfortably.

With that said, Rich and I also found it difficult to find childless couples. We even came across two couples that actually questioned our decision not to adopt :confused: – it was quite negative –
But that was only two people on a huge ship of fabulousness; unfortunately it happened on the first night of our first rFamily cruise and made us a bit cautious about talking to other couples (It’s weird to feel different in the middle of the community that fights to be everything but different).
– We made the best of the vacation, had a wonderful time and will go again, but did not meet any additional friends, other that one couple I met here in the forum before we set sail.


Rich and I would love to be part of this network of couples with out kids.

Hi Rich-
Thank you for the response. We too have had similar experiences on the R Family cruises. We have been asked "Have you two ever thought about having kids?" or "Why don't you two have kids? You would make great fathers". When we answered honestly that kids were never really a part of our plans when we met (I was in my mid 30's establishing an executive career and Tony was in his mid 40's and starting to think about retirement) they would look at us like awwww that's too bad or turn away with indifference to us and made us feel like we were not part of the crowd.

It was very confusing the first trip for us. We were there to support my brother in laws and nephews and we thought that was a very important part of the cruise as well. But many times we were faced with seemingly pity or scorn from other travelers with kids. I applaud their decisions and commitments...I think it is a wonderful thing to see these families and it brings tears to my eyes many times while we are on board. I honestly think that even I was not gay, kids may never have been part of my life plan. I was not in a stable enough environment until this past 5 years to even think of ever bringing a child into the mix. It would not have been fair to a child.

I think that sometimes our fellow travelers are so caught up in the lives of their family and children and think it is something that everyone should do. But, we chose a different path. We love being uncles and treasure these cruises as time to spend with them- quality time,
full of memories that we hope they will remember for their lifetime. These cruises are supposed to be all inclusive- everyone should feel safe, welcome and not judged. We have learned to smile, answer honestly and go our own way when confronted with these questions. I hope that this cruise people are less judging and more open to the fact we chose to be the HAPPY, FUN, Gay uncles!! It is a shame that we as a community feel the need to judge anyone, when we beg the rest of the world not to judge us.

That is why I created this thread. To meet the travelers like us, who are there to support other family members or friends, or to meet like people to have as friends in this world where friends are getting harder to meet. So, please, smile, be honest and don't let people get to you. We are going to go out of our way this trip to meet as many people as possible- to smile and offer to start a conversation with anyone who wants to. We just went on a regular cruise with Carnival and met lots of straight people who were much easier to approach and had no issues with hanging out with a gay couple. We were amazed that it was so much easier to meet people on a straight cruise than on a boat full of other gay people- go figure!!!

So, sorry to drag on- but let's meet and hang out and make friends!

Kevin and Tony;)

[kevinandtony]

Hi Rich-
Thank you for the response. We too have had similar experiences on the R Family cruises. We have been asked "Have you two ever thought about having kids?" or "Why don't you two have kids? You would make great fathers". When we answered honestly that kids were never really a part of our plans when we met (I was in my mid 30's establishing an executive career and Tony was in his mid 40's and starting to think about retirement) they would look at us like awwww that's too bad or turn away with indifference to us and made us feel like we were not part of the crowd.

It was very confusing the first trip for us. We were there to support my brother in laws and nephews and we thought that was a very important part of the cruise as well. But many times we were faced with seemingly pity or scorn from other travelers with kids. I applaud their decisions and commitments...I think it is a wonderful thing to see these families and it brings tears to my eyes many times while we are on board. I honestly think that even I was not gay, kids may never have been part of my life plan. I was not in a stable enough environment until this past 5 years to even think of ever bringing a child into the mix. It would not have been fair to a child.

I think that sometimes our fellow travelers are so caught up in the lives of their family and children and think it is something that everyone should do. But, we chose a different path. We love being uncles and treasure these cruises as time to spend with them- quality time,
full of memories that we hope they will remember for their lifetime. These cruises are supposed to be all inclusive- everyone should feel safe, welcome and not judged. We have learned to smile, answer honestly and go our own way when confronted with these questions. I hope that this cruise people are less judging and more open to the fact we chose to be the HAPPY, FUN, Gay uncles!! It is a shame that we as a community feel the need to judge anyone, when we beg the rest of the world not to judge us.

That is why I created this thread. To meet the travelers like us, who are there to support other family members or friends, or to meet like people to have as friends in this world where friends are getting harder to meet. So, please, smile, be honest and don't let people get to you. We are going to go out of our way this trip to meet as many people as possible- to smile and offer to start a conversation with anyone who wants to. We just went on a regular cruise with Carnival and met lots of straight people who were much easier to approach and had no issues with hanging out with a gay couple. We were amazed that it was so much easier to meet people on a straight cruise than on a boat full of other gay people- go figure!!!

So, sorry to drag on- but let's meet and hang out and make friends!

Kevin and Tony;)

Sorry I just had to add this PS- isn't it a great sign that this thread has like the 4th or 5th highest viewing ??? That has to be a good sign!! (right????)....
K and T:rolleyes:

[Gregg]

Hi Gang,

As you have probably read, we have always marketed ourselves as a great options for those in our community with or without kids. Everyone is welcome on our cruise and you'll see most of our programming is designed for adults. (The kids have their own events that are created for them).

We would love to add a mixer at the beginning of the week for all of the many guests who sail with us that do not have kids (me included).

Thanks for the great feedback and interest and I look forward to seeing all of you onboard!!

Keep spreading the word and always feel free to contact me directly at gregg@rfamilyvacations.com.

:)
gregg

[kevinandtony]

Hi Gang,

As you have probably read, we have always marketed ourselves as a great options for those in our community with or without kids. Everyone is welcome on our cruise and you'll see most of our programming is designed for adults. (The kids have their own events that are created for them).

We would love to add a mixer at the beginning of the week for all of the many guests who sail with us that do not have kids (me included).

Thanks for the great feedback and interest and I look forward to seeing all of you onboard!!

Keep spreading the word and always feel free to contact me directly at gregg@rfamilyvacations.com.

:)
gregg

Thanks Gregg-
I am so glad you responded along with all these other great people. We are looking forward to meeting you all very soon. Take the time off during this get together and play passenger for a short time. Anything we can do to help, let us know! We would love to help!
See ya soon!!!

Kevin and Tony

[Alaska2009]

I'm single and nobody ever bothered me about "getting a boyfriend" or adopting a child (I met single parents). There were a lot of single people hanging around the piano bar at night.

I liked all the group events and just being part of the crowd - It was a very unique experience. I've been with all-male, all-Gay crowds tons of times, and also mixed gay men / gay women crowds.

But what made these gatherings so unique is that there was a full range of people, from 1 month to people in their 80's...and beyond?

It's also so much easier for me as a single person, I don't have to explain who I am, what I am, why I'm traveling alone....I was on a straight cruise with a Gay group of about 50 people.

We had a great time, but whenever I got away from the group on my own I felt a little lost and I just could not relate to any of the people around me.

I never felt that way on Rosie's cruise, everything always felt like a celebration of our lives .

It's the hardest feeling to describe in the world. Can't wait to feel it again! ;)

[Possum]

Well, now I am worried...this thread is "Couples/Singles with no kids". Seems like all I am hearing is Couples who want to meet Couples...when I posted that I was sailing single I didn't even get acknowledeged. Will I be subjected to a week of "Why are you single?" in addition to why I have no kids?....uh oh!

[Crazy aka Cheryl]

Well, now I am worried...this thread is "Couples/Singles with no kids". Seems like all I am hearing is Couples who want to meet Couples...when I posted that I was sailing single I didn't even get acknowledeged. Will I be subjected to a week of "Why are you single?" in addition to why I have no kids?....uh oh!
No worries there are actully many singles that travel with us.There is a Mixer for them on every Cruise in addition to planned events for singles through out the week.There will be plenty of opportunities for you to meet other singles.
I wouldn't worry about be questioned as to why you are or aren't anything.
That is the beauty of an R Family Cruise because there is such a variety of people everyone fits in and is equally welcomed.
CCC

[Valentine]

Don't worry! I travelled solo.. with no kids... on the last cruise... I was alone for about the first 10 minutes.. and then that was it! Finding people here on the boards is a wonderful way to get to know people ahead of time... gives you "someone" to look out for.. or feel connected to... at the sail away party.. just look for cheryl in her Rainbow outfit.. if you look around her.. you will find other forum folks.. and introduce yourself.. and let the fun begin! Noone ever asked me why I was alone.. or why I didn't have kids..... noone asks anyone anything of that nature.. it is live and let live... and complete respect of each other's choices.. no judgement ever.... so..come along and join in the party! :) You will NEVER regret it!

Kathy

[Dads2Henry]

Kevin and Tony -

I'm sorry you've had that experience on other cruises. My partner and I have a 2 1/2 year old, and this will be our 4th R Family Cruise. Every cruise we've been on, we've made friends with couples and singles without kids. Not all the gay dads are going to pressure you to have kids - so don't be afraid to say hi to some of the dads on board!!!

Jeff (who won't ask you why you're not going to have kids!)

[nycouple]

NY couple here. This is our first R Family cruise and are looking forward to seeing Alaska. We don't have kids either but are great Uncles to 6 young kids. Hoping to have a great time and meet w/other gay people wether it be couples, singles or families.

[Crazy aka Cheryl]

NY couple here. This is our first R Family cruise and are looking forward to seeing Alaska. We don't have kids either but are great Uncles to 6 young kids. Hoping to have a great time and meet w/other gay people wether it be couples, singles or families.
Well HI NY Couple.Glad to have you on board.
You are going to LOVE ALASKA and there is n better way to see it than with R Family(ies).
CCC
New Yorker

[nycouple]

Thanks, looking forward to it.

[canadian cruisers]

Hi Group,

Well my partner and I have been on every cruise so far and without kids. On the first Cruise it was a fantastic and Magical experience and we met so many wonderful new friends. On the second and third cruise it inspired us to have our very own commitment ceromony here at home with family and friends. Then "I" wanted Kids, LOL well it never happened but we still keep on cruisin with our friends and their kids. We are always asked why we don't have kids or do we plan on having kids and why would we come on this cruise with so many kids. As Greg mentioned it is for everyone and we are extremely happy without and enjoy those of others. We have our 4 legged little girl our child ( wish we could bring her on with us ).
The idea of a Mixer is fantastic and watch there be a huge turn out.

Have a great trip

Terry and Fred

[nycouple]

Hey Greg,

A mixer sounds great. Keep us posted and we'll be there. Looking forward to a great time.

[oh2ak09]

Hello,

I am from Ohio and I am single with no children. I am traveling with some friends and this will be my first cruise. I am looking forward to meeting some new people. Any mixers to help accomplish this sound great!

[two grandmas]

Hi Kevin and Tony.........and EVERYONE else!

Peg and Margie here! This is our 3rd cruise.....can't wait for July.
We have no children traveling with us..................and would love to get together.

[Possum]

Hello single person from Ohio with no children :) Welcome aboard! I'm hoping for some singles with no children mixers too!

[spddare65]

This is my 5th R Family cruise as a single with no kids. It's always a good time.

[vandenk]

Hi all! Jeff and I are doing our first cruise and don't have kids either. I'm glad you posted this topic and it will be nice to connect with others that will be on a schedule independent of kids.

Were coming in from Minnesota on Friday, and are avid DNR listeners, so we will be hanging out with the Derek & Romaine crowd on Friday night. I think there's also planning for an "over 21" get-together on Friday night as well. So hopefully we can meet before launch OR at least know how to contact each other in advance of being on the ship.

Kevin & Jeff

[hwilhelm]

Hey Sharon and Beth,
My partner and I are coming in from Nebraska too!! Where are you from? It would be great to "hook up!"
HeatherHey guys and gals,

We are a female couple with no kids on our first every cruise, period. We chose R Family just because of all of you. Would love to get together before, during or maybe after cruise. We are not sure if we will get to Seattle only the day before or day of as we are driving in from Nebraska. But we will be hanging around a few days after returning, as we have friends in the area. Keep us in mind for any activities, if you don't mind a couple of old ladies hanging around.
Sharon and Beth

[sharonlynn1946]

Hey Sharon and Beth,
My partner and I are coming in from Nebraska too!! Where are you from? It would be great to "hook up!"
Heather
Hello Heather,
We are from Omaha. And where might you two be from? Write me privately at slwatkins1946@cox.net

Sharon and Beth
Omahan's

[dcantucson]

Hi Kevin and Tony....and all!
We too are without kids and look forward to meeting others. My partner, Glenn and I live in Tucson and look forward to meeting you. This is our 2nd cruise, but the 1st rfamily cruise. We cruised to Hawaii in 2007 with another couple (female) on a Princess cruise. We didn't encounter any problems of any kind, but I think many thought we were 2 straight couples together. We are looking forward to this type of cruise, but are a bit concerned about all the families and children, too. Especially since we don't have any! We want to feel inclusive as part of the GLBT family, but not excluded just because we don't have children.

Looking forward to meeting everyone, soon!
-David

[Crazy aka Cheryl]

Hi Kevin and Tony....and all!
We too are without kids and look forward to meeting others. My partner, Glenn and I live in Tucson and look forward to meeting you. This is our 2nd cruise, but the 1st rfamily cruise. We cruised to Hawaii in 2007 with another couple (female) on a Princess cruise. We didn't encounter any problems of any kind, but I think many thought we were 2 straight couples together. We are looking forward to this type of cruise, but are a bit concerned about all the families and children, too. Especially since we don't have any! We want to feel inclusive as part of the GLBT family, but not excluded just because we don't have children.

Looking forward to meeting everyone, soon!
-David
Hi David,
There are plenty of opportunities to meet other Cruisers without children on the Cruise.Actually you would never think that there were so many kids on the Cruise.
There are plenty of activities that are planned just for the adults it is very inclusive.People bring their family friends Gay straight single just a big mix of everyone.
People are friendly. You are going to have a great time.The beauty of this Cruise is that everyone fits.
I am hosting a Pre Cruise dinner the night before the Cruise there are plenty of Couples without kids coming.It is a great way to meet people.
If you want read the Pre Cruise thread and you can see the people coming without kids.
Come have dinner with us.I will introduce you to everyone.
WELCOME!!!!
CCC

[kevinandtony]

Hi Everyone!

It is so great to still seeing people responding to this thread! I apologize I haven't been as good at keeping up my part of the conversation lately, but work travel has kept me busy.
Anyways, I am excited to meet every one of you in July. This should be a fun mixer. We will be in Seattle Wed the 8th to play around in my ol' hometown for a couple of days. We would love to try and meet up with some of you prior to the departure. So feel free to email us privately and say HI!

Almost there... it's heating up in Phoenix already, so cool Alaska is looking better and better everyday...

Thanks again for all the responses!!!!!

Kevin and Tony

[nycouple]

The cruise is getting closer and we are very excited. My partner and I are looking forward to meeting everyone. We don't have kids either and are wating to see what activities there are for us. If anyone hears of any, please let us know. I know they advertised this cruise in A Bears Life magazine and was wondering if they have anything planned. Thanks, Ben*

[TruckerJohnT]

Hey All,
Getting together before or during the cruise with everyone without kids, and even those with kids sounds like a great idea. As you've probably read in some of my posts before, I am in the process of putting together a PreCruise Party the night before we embark. It will be at a bar in Seattle, R-Place, so hope to see and meet everyone there. I'm sure we 're all going to have a great time before, during and after the cruise and I look forward in meeting new people making alot of new friends to stay intouch with. I'm kind of shy at first, but, after that, watchout! LOL


TruckerJohnT
from the Swine Flu center of America, New York!

:D

[candue]

Hey John is this the weekend you are cruising nowhere? If so have a good time.

[TruckerJohnT]

It sure is, tomorrow, I'm ocean bound and what's really funny is I have the same cabin number on this cruise as I do with the R-Family Cruise! LOL I think it's an omen!
Thanks for the well wishes, I need them. I'm nervous! LOL

TruckerJohnT

:eek:

[candue]

Well I am envious and certain you will enjoy. Anything that could go awry you will be prepared for by July, if there are any issues. Are you driving down? Good luck and I'll be thinking of you sailing away. Tj

[TruckerJohnT]

Hey Candue,
This should be a good breakin for me for the "BIG" cruise. I booked this cruise thru a bus company/Travel Agent and it included round trip bus for the cruise. The bus pickup point is less than a mile from my house and they have secure parking. I checked with the bus company today and there's only 17 people on a 55 passenger bus so lots of room (god and I need it LOL) . The bus will be there at 11am on Sunday to bring us back home so this should be really nice. I'm bringing my laptop so let's see if I get a connection with my wifi modem. Talk to you guys soon.

TruckerJohnT

:rolleyes:

[Matthew G]

my bf and I are first time cruisers, no kids here also, would love to meet you all on the cruise. Also any advice on which are the best excursion trips to take, and does it make the most sense to wait until the cruise to book them?

thanks and looking forward to meeting everyone:)

[Possum]

Hi Matthew!

I think is you see something you "Have to do!!!" book it now. Check out the cancelation policy first.

There are two options for excursions...from the ship and privately booked. Booked privately you get a more personal experience, save some money, don't have to wait for 60 other people to board the bus and use the bathroom, can skip shopping stops!!!!...but you have to do your homework.

I believe in Alaska your private booking options are limited as opposed to when you go to the Caribbean, when people are right on the dock hawking tours. [Can someone comment on this?]

Another caveat is that a ship booked tour waits for you if you are late! [Suppose you get caught in an avalanche while scouting out a glacier? Hmm...could be trouble and cause a slight delay in your return to the ship]

Another note...on a cruise like this...maybe you WANT to be on a tour with your fellow passengers as opposed to being on an all straight cruise where you can't wait to get away from them!

Possum

[traingirl]

Coming without my partner who is in school and our only child has four legs and barks, so can't come on the cruise though she loves all people. Really looking forward to this as I have always wanted to go to Alaska.

[Nick&Dustin]

Hi everyone -

Just wanted to say hello. We're about to book the cruise tomorrow and I've been following a few of the threads on here in preparation. You've all been so helpful (and sometimes plain hilarious). Thanks for making this an easy decision. It's our first vacation together, we just celebrated 2 years as a couple, and it's Dustin's first cruise. Looking forward to a great experience and learning more as we get closer to travel day!


Nick (29) & Dustin (28) from NYC

[candue]

That is great news. I promise it will be an outstanding time for the you both. Looking forward to meeting you.

[Lakeladies]

Hi everyone -

Just wanted to say hello. We're about to book the cruise tomorrow and I've been following a few of the threads on here in preparation. You've all been so helpful (and sometimes plain hilarious). Thanks for making this an easy decision. It's our first vacation together, we just celebrated 2 years as a couple, and it's Dustin's first cruise. Looking forward to a great experience and learning more as we get closer to travel day!


Nick (29) & Dustin (28) from NYC

This will be our first R Family cruise and I feel like I know everyone just from the threads.Like you said, many have been hilarious and it has been great fun . So join us in the chatter leading up to the cruise. Can't wait to place the faces with names when we meet at the pre cruise dinner.

MaryAnn

[Crazy aka Cheryl]

Hi everyone -

Just wanted to say hello. We're about to book the cruise tomorrow and I've been following a few of the threads on here in preparation. You've all been so helpful (and sometimes plain hilarious). Thanks for making this an easy decision. It's our first vacation together, we just celebrated 2 years as a couple, and it's Dustin's first cruise. Looking forward to a great experience and learning more as we get closer to travel day!


Nick (29) & Dustin (28) from NYC

Howdy neighbor!! Welcome to the Board's and R Family.If you have been following some of the Threads you will see that we are a bunch of happy people with a common bond.To spend a week together and have a BLAST !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh if you have been reading you might of seen a few Posts by me.I am the Welcome Wagon and 411 info line please feel free to ask away.
Ps office not open on Fridays. Leave a message they will call you back.
I am so happy that you are joining us.You shoud come to the Pre Cruise dinner.There are over 100 people coming this way you will know people on the Boat.It is also a good excuse to start the PARTAAAAAAAAAAAAAH a day early.
Love,
CCC

[nycouple]

Welcome aboard guys, looking forward to meeting everyone and a great trip. It will be here before we all know it. Ben*

[vandenk]

Hi everyone -

Just wanted to say hello. We're about to book the cruise tomorrow and I've been following a few of the threads on here in preparation. You've all been so helpful (and sometimes plain hilarious). Thanks for making this an easy decision. It's our first vacation together, we just celebrated 2 years as a couple, and it's Dustin's first cruise. Looking forward to a great experience and learning more as we get closer to travel day!


Nick (29) & Dustin (28) from NYC


Welcome Nick and Dustin! This will be our first cruise too, although we've been together a bit longer. We're looking forward to meeting some really nice people on the trip, and hope to count you among them!

Kevin & Jeff

[jamiel]

Hello All! My name is Jamie and my partner is Cinde. We are first time cruisers out of Phoenix, AZ with no kids. We are looking forward to meeting you all and enjoying this unique experience.

We will be in Seattle a day early and staying until Sunday night and if there are any activities planned, we'd love to join.

Cheers!

Jamie and Cinde

[Jan V]

Hello All! My name is Jamie and my partner is Cinde. We are first time cruisers out of Phoenix, AZ with no kids. We are looking forward to meeting you all and enjoying this unique experience.

We will be in Seattle a day early and staying until Sunday night and if there are any activities planned, we'd love to join.

Cheers!

Jamie and Cinde

There is a pre-cruise dinner on Friday that is being organized by Cheryl. Look for the thread. It should be a blast!

Last time we were in Seattle, we could spot other cruisers on the streets, often by their t-shirts. We met a couple of families that way.

[Crazy aka Cheryl]

Hello All! My name is Jamie and my partner is Cinde. We are first time cruisers out of Phoenix, AZ with no kids. We are looking forward to meeting you all and enjoying this unique experience.

We will be in Seattle a day early and staying until Sunday night and if there are any activities planned, we'd love to join.

Cheers!

Jamie and Cinde
Hi Jamie and Cinde and welcome to R Family. You could not have picked a better vacation.I have been on all of the Cruises and I look forward to them so much.
Kelsey is the offiial counter.There is also a Pre Cruise dinner as Jan mentioned There are over 100 coming already.It is a great way to meet people before the Cruise.
I wll pull up the Post.Please join us.I am also the Welcome wagon and 441 line.So if you have any questions ask away.You will find everyone on the boards very helpful.
I am gong to repost our own little FAQ for the Cruise.It is long but worth reading.
CC.C

[candue]

If all else fails you can shoot for going to the Forum mixer. I found it helpful to connect faces with their sign on names when I went.

[sharonlynn1946]

If all else fails you can shoot for going to the Forum mixer. I found it helpful to connect faces with their sign on names when I went.

So there will be some kind of get together on board for the people from the forums? GREAT, was wondering how we were gonna find some of you. Beth and I will be on our red motorized chairs with "Husker" red flags flying. Can't miss us!! See you all soon!

Sharon and Beth
Omahan's

[candue]

No racing on deck 10!

[nycouple]

Where is the Forum Mixer? Sounds like a great idea.

[Crazy aka Cheryl]

Where is the Forum Mixer? Sounds like a great idea.

It is usually be the first day we are at Sea. I will post the details when we get closer to the Cruise.It will be on your planner that you get everynight.
CCC

[ErnieMikeLA]

We're coming - and we do not have kids - just us! Mike & I have been on 2 previous R Family Cruises:

July 2007 - NYC to Bahamas
March 2008 - Mexican Riviera

Our cabin is on the 10th deck and we're really looking forward to the FUN and ADVENTURE that awaits in Alaska!!! Booking our excursions and looking forward to meeting so many of you all!!!! Be sure to say Hi if you recognize us.

Ernie & Mike
Los Angeles, CA

[sandi]

Yes , we would like to join a forum.My partner and I have been together for over 22 years, raised kids, now its time for some fun. We are from Phoenix ,also. We have plans to marry on this trip, so all are invited. Can't wait.

Sandi and Lynne

[Nightowls]

Hi Sandi and Lynne..welcome...we live in Glendale and have been on all but one of the RFamily cruises. You will love it!!!

[Crazy aka Cheryl]

Yes , we would like to join a forum.My partner and I have been together for over 22 years, raised kids, now its time for some fun. We are from Phoenix ,also. We have plans to marry on this trip, so all are invited. Can't wait.

Sandi and Lynne

Well congratulations on your up coming wedding!
I am CCC knwon on the Boards as the welcome wagon.
If you look I am hosting a Pre Cruise dinner the night before we leave.
It is a great way to meet people prior to the Cruise.
There will be over 100 BOAT Peeps there.
Youn should join us if you can.
CCC
Please feel free to ask away idf you hve any questions!!!!
CCC

[sandi]

Thank you CCC.

I have alot of questions!!!
I'm sure they will all be answered in a timely manner.
Yes, we would love to join you at your pre-dinner. Do we need to sign up?
Anything you can do to help the cruise "virgins" would be most appreciated.

Thanks again,

Sandi

[Crazy aka Cheryl]

Thank you CCC.

I have alot of questions!!!
I'm sure they will all be answered in a timely manner.
Yes, we would love to join you at your pre-dinner. Do we need to sign up?
Anything you can do to help the cruise "virgins" would be most appreciated.

Thanks again,

Sandi
I will repost the Pre Cruise dinne rollcall.Please put names and ages of anyone under 8 they are free!
CCC

[kevinandtony]

Yes , we would like to join a forum.My partner and I have been together for over 22 years, raised kids, now its time for some fun. We are from Phoenix ,also. We have plans to marry on this trip, so all are invited. Can't wait.

Sandi and Lynne

:D I am so excited to see a couple of fellow Phoenicians joined our discussion. This is our 3rd RFamily cruise and we have only met 2 or 3 other Phoenix people on the past cruises.
Congrats Sandi on your upcoming nuptials. This will be our 10 year anniversary (actually June 23rd, but close enough!).

See ya'll soon!

Kevin and Tony

[nycouple]

Thanks CC, can't wait.

[snerak]

my bf and I are first time cruisers, no kids here also, would love to meet you all on the cruise. Also any advice on which are the best excursion trips to take, and does it make the most sense to wait until the cruise to book them?

thanks and looking forward to meeting everyone:)

I second the idea of going on the "must do" excursions.

Also, I don't recommend the city tour options if you're like me and like to have the flexiblity & freedom to choose where to go & when.

Ben