jermmima
02-15-2006, 12:15 PM
Hi everybody my name is tracy i live in australia and i am 36 years old i have been married for 16 year to my wonderful husband, you may ask what i earth is she doing here.
Well i have two mums, i had two mum when it was not in the news. My mum did not plan on me she cheated on my nan but that blow over and they raised me together, nan is what i called my other mum because she was 20 years older then my birth mum and it was easier to explain to the teachers and the other kids well for them maybe i was 15 before i found out not everybodys mum and nan slept in the same bed, they dont and that explains the looked i could never explain.
anyway we cant have kids because i have renal failure and i have been told to my face that god is making me pay for my familys sins , i have also been told that i dont really have a family because they are gay, both of these things are bullshit. how can people deny the only family i have ever known, it makes me mad.
But here i am married and happy i love my mum and nan (she passed last year) and they did a wonderful job they have a wonderful support system none of them blood but all of them aunties to me still now.
i know no other life to the point that my husband and i both work for the longest running gay nightclub in australia and have for 12 years, its my world and my life and i would not have it any other way.
so well done to anyone that chooses to bring a child into a loving home because we do come out just fine, and you mums and dad will get over it when we tell you we are str8 and still love us even if thats not how your parents did it for you.
thank you for reading and hope to join in some of your treads if you will have me.
Well i have two mums, i had two mum when it was not in the news. My mum did not plan on me she cheated on my nan but that blow over and they raised me together, nan is what i called my other mum because she was 20 years older then my birth mum and it was easier to explain to the teachers and the other kids well for them maybe i was 15 before i found out not everybodys mum and nan slept in the same bed, they dont and that explains the looked i could never explain.
anyway we cant have kids because i have renal failure and i have been told to my face that god is making me pay for my familys sins , i have also been told that i dont really have a family because they are gay, both of these things are bullshit. how can people deny the only family i have ever known, it makes me mad.
But here i am married and happy i love my mum and nan (she passed last year) and they did a wonderful job they have a wonderful support system none of them blood but all of them aunties to me still now.
i know no other life to the point that my husband and i both work for the longest running gay nightclub in australia and have for 12 years, its my world and my life and i would not have it any other way.
so well done to anyone that chooses to bring a child into a loving home because we do come out just fine, and you mums and dad will get over it when we tell you we are str8 and still love us even if thats not how your parents did it for you.
thank you for reading and hope to join in some of your treads if you will have me.